WANTED

Some days ago I was listening on the radio a conversation in which men and women were saying that nowadays is getting a little bit difficult to find a partner; the participants were saying that it could be due to changes on people’s priorities ’cause during a long period most of the people are focus on studying, on having a good job, on making money, on travelling, on having fun and on keeping their independency.

Nobody disagree with the fact that all those things are really good to look for, and someone said that precisely those facts make us become more selective therefore is difficult to find a person who fulfils all the characteristics we are looking for.

What do you think about it?

EXTRACT

Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite num­ber of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limit­ed to one woman).


We can never establish with certainty what part of our relations with others is the result of our emotions—love, antipathy, char­ity, or malice—and what part is predetermined by the constant power play among individuals.

Milan Kundera - The Unbearable Lightness of Being.

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I don’t recognise your silhouette, I don’t know who you are, but I know you exist… ’cause I dream your eyes that are anxious of reflections, knowledge and love, and those instances make me able to see you even to feel you.

TODAY

Today after seeing you I felt that it was like a dream to be there with you… Looking at you, at your eyes, at your smile; enjoying your company, your conversation, your gentlemanly and every nice thought you had with me.

Thanks for those instances and for made rediscover some emotions I had forgotten.

LettyLup

Postscript

You have always called my attention due to a lot factors like your intelligence, your personality, your way of looking, today I had the chance to discover some other things about you, things that I didn’t expect. Luckily I don’t see you so often because I guess you are that kind of person who can easily win over my heart.

THE IRRESISTABLE SOUTH

I´ve been trying to post this video, but I have had problems so as to do it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_Q-Kh8uaco

Hope you enjoy the images, they come from a friendly and cosmopolitan port city.

Regards

SOMETHING MAGICAL

It was only you and I, talking and laughing about everything, the tranquility of your place made us forgot about words, about time, about everything. Suddenly, we were sitting right there, just looking each other......You started touching my hair and caressing my face. Inevitably, that silence and proximity, caused that our mouths started enjoying the softness and humidity of our lips. By inertia, we began to caress and our hands little by little were removing all those obstacles we had so as to discover our skin….

….It was magical, ´cause we started being two and we ended being one.

SILENCE

...We were both silent, each waiting for the other to speak, but speech is not the only means of understanding between two souls. It is not the syllables that come from the lips and tongues that bring hearts together.

There is something greater and purer than what the mouth utters. Silence illuminates our souls, whispers to our hearts, and brings them together. Silence separates us from ourselves, makes us sail the firmament of spirit, and brings us closer to Heaven; it makes us feel that bodies are no more than prisons and that this world is only a place of exile...

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From: Broken Wings

Written by Kahlil Gibran

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FOR MY SPECIAL PERSON

I don’t know if you will read this entry, anyways this is for you.


Do you remember these words?

When I first saw you I already knew, there was something inside of you, something I thought that I would never find, angel of mine. How you changed my world you'll never know I'm different now, you helped me grow...

Now, the chapter of our story has been closed, and in spite of it, I still feel something for you (perhaps not with the same intensity I used to feel) but I know is not enough, because our growing apart has been inevitable.

I’m not pretending to be sentimental, but I know that despite other persons will come along, you will always have a special place in my memories and in my life.

Happy Birthday!

I WANT YOU TO...

Kiss me,

.............Hug me,

...........................Touch me, and

.................................................. Make me tremble once again.

IF I WAS

Sometimes at night I start thinking………

If I could have just one wish I'd wish that you were mine, so I would hold you near and kiss away all those tears.

I wish I could reach out and feel you right beside me, and take you in my arms and scream I love you right out loud. But, that's just not meant to be ’cause I’m not the one who is in your life, and I’m not the one who is sharing your nights.

I wish I could be the one in your life.

Modified from "If I was the one"

SO HARD

By accident I heard part of a conversation between two girls. One of them was feeling so confused and some questions were passing through her mind, like:

How long does it take to forget a person who has been so important in your life?

When and how will I know I’m ready to have a new relationship?

It’s a difficult situation.

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WITH YOU...

...I want to exchange a kiss for a smile, a silence for a sigh, a caress for a desire, a passion for a love…a life for one I Love You.

NOW...

Is useless to feign.... You have become the eternal ghost who lives in my memory.

NIGHT SESSIONS

This music makes my mind to create some scenery about a nice evening. Right now I wish I could be drinking some wine in a nice place and having good conversation with the person I like, and as a perfect complement candle’s light.

IF YOU FORGET ME

I want you to know
one thing.

You know how this is:
if I look
at the crystal moon, at the red branch
of the slow autumn at my window,
if I touch
near the fire
the impalpable ash
or the wrinkled body of the log,
everything carries me to you,
as if everything that exists,
aromas, light, metals,
were little boats
that sail
toward those isles of yours that wait for me.

Well, now,
if little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you little by little.

If suddenly
you forget me
do not look for me,
for I shall already have forgotten you.

If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.

But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.

Pablo Neruda

QUESTION

Some days ago I had an interesting girl’s talk with one of my friends, and as you can imagine a lot of things came up in our conversation. And, there was something she said that made have a slightly dilemma “There are some moments in life in which I wonder, what will be much easier to love or to forget somebody?”

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What do you think about it?

TIRED OF BEING SORRY

Maybe you were right
But baby I was lonely
I don't want to fight
I'm tired of being sorry

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN .. ....?

In the morning light
Half awake and half a sleep
Have you ever laid there thinking?
Was it all a dream?
But you reach out and he’s there
Every moment, everywhere
Have you ever been in love?

Have you ever felt?
How far a heart can fall
Have you ever stayed up waiting?
For a telephone call
Just to hear him say hello
’Cause you miss each other so
Have you ever been in love?

Have there been times to laugh
And times you really want to cry
Finding reasons to believe him
’Cause you’d die a little if he lied
And when in times of doubt
Have you ever tried to work it out?
But still he leaves you wondering
What it’s all about?

And when he is far away
Have you ever felt the need to stray?
And tried and then discovered
It just doesn’t pay
’Cause with him, you can be true
And with him, you can be you
Have you ever been in love?

And when the night comes down
Can you call your house a home?
Do you dream you’re still together?
And wake up alone
Have you ever been in love?
The way that I’m in love
Have you ever been in love?

by Westlife

NEW YEAR

Another year has gone, and it took all good and bad moments we lived. But, a new year is going to begin.

This event for some people is no more than a change of a calendar but, for others the New Year symbolizes the beginning of a better tomorrow, so that means we will have the possibility to fulfill some of our dreams, to accomplish some of our resolutions and also we will have the possibility to look for that something that could make us feel complete, and that’s for sure that during our search we will have love, happiness, sadness, encounters, absences, tears and laughs.

The most important here is; to continue trying to accomplish our goals and continue believing in our dreams.

Happy New Year!!!!

WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES

We all know the meaning of bitch, so you may think Why Men Love Bitches (por qué los hombres aman a las cabronas) is a derogative title, but is not, actually that title belongs to a book written by Sherry Argov, and it is a simple and humoristic woman’s guide to holding her own in a relationship, it is organized into ten chapters with 100 “Attraction Principals”.

This book isn’t about how to play or how to manipulate someone; it is about the attitude girls should have so as to stop being a nice girl and then become a new and improve bitch.

According to Sherry there are two kind of girls the ones that are TOO nice and bitches, now you may wonder, how can I know if I am a nice girl or a bitch?

Let’s meet the nice girl…..

I guess everybody knows a nice girl, she is the kind woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man, without him having to invest much in the relationship, also she is the woman who gives blindly because she wants more of her attentions to be reciprocated and she is the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or want, so that means she is too willing to accommodate and please a man, because she thinks that’s the best way to bring his love, but at the end that attitude leads a man to see her like a desperate or like a needy woman.

So at the end a nice girl will start feeling miserable and will start complaining about her relationship but she won’t say a peep and she will want to talk about the situation they are living without having the answer she was expecting.

Now let’s meet a bitch

At the beginning of chapter ten Sherry gives a new definition of the term bitch.

A bitch is a woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own.

In other words a bitch is the kind of girl who keeps her independency, who doesn’t chases a man, who has some mystery, a girl who doesn’t allow a man to see her having a bad moment, a girl who has the control of her time and feelings. And if she complains about something or someone, she will say plenty of peeps and if she sees the relationship is not worthwhile she will say no more.

So, as you can see the main difference between a nice girl and a bitch is the attitude each one has.

I want to finish this entry saying:

“Just remember: is not about a man, is your life and it has a big value so as to be wasted. Do things only if you see they are convenient for you, especially about your options and the one you let be close to you. It will give you better utility, especially on dignity department. So never ask for affection, if he does not correspond you, stop giving him affection and stop insisting”.

Post Script

I don’t want to sound like a feminist person, but is a nice feeling to be a bitch; ’cause that means you are a Babe In Total Control of Herself.

UPDATE

When I started reading this book I was slightly skeptical, because I didn’t have idea what I was going to find, but little by little it was calling my attention ’cause it has some helpful advices, but some others are not really good at all. Actually, I’m not saying to apply the whole book on your personal life, ’cause that will be kind of silly. Since my point of view there should be a balance between being a nice girl and a bitch.