I think we as women have complain at least one time about men feelings, because sometimes we don’t know if we have a boyfriend or a piece of ice close to us. And we may think do men have feelings? If they do, why don’t they communicate enough? And, why don’t they express their feelings and thoughts?.
Is more than sure that men have feelings, but they do not express them so easy because since they were little kids they haven been “programming” so as to be strong, and for some men to talk about feelings is a sign of weakness.
We girls have to understand that men are suppose to be "machos", that’s why they lack the skills to express their feelings, but I guess on a relationship men will gain the capacity to express their thoughts as soon as they feel more comfortable so as to open their "hearts" because little by little they will see we are not going to laugh of their feelings and we are not going to tell nobody about them.
Anyways, men show what they feel on a different way so we should pay attention on their actions and on their way of being because it might express in a better way what they feel for us.
As Benjamin Franklin said "WELL DONE IS BETTER THAN WELL SAID."
3 comments:
Niña, te dire que este es el post que más trabajo me ha dado entender. De hecho, no lo entendí, jijijiji, pero de lo poco, te digo, "los hombres nunca lloran" es lo que siempre dicen y es cierto que la sociedad en la que vivimos no les ha permitido mostrar sus sentimientos. Creo que sería muy difícil cambiar las cosas ya que es de carácter socio-cultural, "es una tradición". Si queremos algo diferente necesitamos cambiar nosotros mismos.
LettyLup:
You said: they feel on a different way. I think that’s that. Obviously, we’re not insensible to cultural influences, but I guess that is more a nature question than a nurture question. What is better and why?
Hugs.
Lian: es cierto que es dificil ver a un hombre llorar pero no es imposible.
Miau: I think this topic will be controversial among you guys, ´cuz is more than sure you can have a different opinion. I wrote this blog because I always have had that question.
Thank you.
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